Virtually all older women don’t want to be called cougars. They are just rich women looking for men to have normal relationships with. Why do men prefer cougars over younger girls? Older, attractive, and mature older women come in all shapes and sizes and with a little extra dual-vibe that we like calling extravagance and experience. Cougars have gained acceptance and widespread popularity over the years. Cleary, this is not a new trend; older women dating younger men have been existence in the society for eons now!
It is a dream-come-true for a cougar to snatch a handsome, successful and younger man. However even with these qualities, men are at a loss in their first date with cougars and they are unable to secure a second date. Is it something that they say, do or don’t do? Hope in to find out!
Be very careful with the compliments
When it comes to the first date with a cougar, it is better to keep the compliments to yourself. You could find yourself saying something oppressive when you keep on throwing compliments at her. For example, you just have to say that she looks beautiful without adding something extra. Mentioning something about the absence of wrinkles or crows-feet on her face could serve as an insult rather than a compliment. Avoid comparing her to older women in your life for example your mother or a famous older mentor of yours. Cougars want to be in charge. Sometimes just letting her talk and maintaining a normal conversation on your side without boring her could be enough!
Avoid talking about yourself too much
Just like any other girl, a cougar will resent a guy who keeps talking about himself during a first date. By monopolizing too much on your achievements or life stories, you will not only be running the risk of boring her, but you will also be risking revealing something that she might dislike about you. An older woman will also want some authority. She needs to feel that you gave her a chance to be heard. Ask her questions that get her engaged in the conversation whenever you find yourself dominating most of it. By letting her to be in charge, she will think more highly of you, enjoy the date, and want to ask you for a second date.
Avoid being too needy
If your drive for dating older women is money, avoid statements that directly expose this fact. An older woman will want your attention and love before she can give you anything in return. Instead of constantly thinking about the money or trying to seek out for her validation during your first date, focus more on her and the moment. It’s all about the confidence that you display on your date. Assume that she likes you and try to be funny only if she likes it and you are off to a great start!
Go straight to the point
Unlike your sorority hussy, cougars do not have time to waste or play games. They all got more important things to do, so if she is into rocking your world, she dives in head first; no second thoughts!
She is just interested in having a good time. If you can’t give her that, you are so definitely not getting a second date. She already knows what she wants, so its time you figure out what you want and then focus!