Some reasons why men find it appealing to date older women are:
• She has more sexual experience than you.
• She may know the perfect thing to say in order to motivate or comfort you.
• Older women tend to have more social connections and this may help you in your career.
• She creates less drama.
• Dating an older woman is less insecure as she understands that men have their needs too.
Here are a few points to get you started if you are thinking about dating an older woman:
Older women like men who can hold interesting conversations. One of the main reasons that older women do not want to date younger men is that most young men can’t have intellectual conversations. You will have to go deeper in your conversations with your date to disprove this. Being a good conversationalist is always important in dating, so if you have the ability to hold meaningful conversations, you are on the right track.
Do not break the promises you make. Every old woman has the experience of fakes who can’t keep their word. Avoid making promises you can’t keep since this is a way of showing that you are still immature. In case you are not able to keep any of the promises you made always let her know and if possible provide a valid reason for that.
Show your humorous side. You should try to inject humor into conversations at the right place. Try to mix humor with sarcasm, this will show your intelligence. Older women tend to have more responsibilities on them and thus you can step in and relieve her stress through humor.
Do not make the mistake of trying to be something else instead of the real you, while dating an older woman not dating older lesbian women. Older women are wise as they have dated many men before you, so you need to be smart. They can easily understand when you are being tensed or depressed. Its better you try to be yourself always. You may be able to deceive her with a fake personality initially but in the long run she will find out.
You need to be confident in order to date any woman, be it younger or older, poor or rich. This means you have to show her that you have confidence in yourself. In order to demonstrate this you can tease and challenge her. Playful teasing is a good sign that you are not intimated by her.