Online Dating can be fun and exciting but it can be difficult to find the right woman who is not only compatible with you, but who is attractive and interesting. There are many reasons why it may be beneficial to know if a woman is a cougar. If you’re a younger man, you may be interested in knowing if an attractive older woman is open to a date with you, while older rich men may wish to avoid the cougar woman as she won’t be interested in them.
Here are some tips on learning how to know if a woman is a cougar so you can either take it to the next step, or continue looking for a woman who is compatible with you.
If you’re admiring a woman from afar there may be some clues that she’d rather hang out with a younger crowd. Do you know who she’s dated in the past, or can one of your friends clue you in?
Even though she’s in her 30s or 40s, does she still dress in clothing that younger women would wear? Does she wear a lot of makeup? Usually as women age they dress conservatively and wear natural-looking makeup, and less jewelry. But if she’s still dressing like she did in her late teens and early 20s, it may be a sign that she’s still mentally young as well. It’s also a great sign that she has plenty of energy for a younger man.
What are the interests of the woman? Does she listen to hip hop, or does she listen to 80s or classic rock? This is also a clue as to the types of men she likes to date. If an older woman is trying to attract a younger man, she’s going to be listening to music that he’ll be interested in.
Does the cougar woman frequent bars and nightclubs where younger men like to hang out? If you haven’t met her in advance, who are the friends she hangs out with? Is it a younger crowd? When she chats with men, are they her age, or are they younger?
You’ll have to discreetly check her out, and not be creepy about it. Do her eyes glance at younger men passing by? Has she turned to look in your direction, and smiled at you?
Once you gather up the courage to chat to her, you’ll also notice further clues. If you’re a younger male, does she smile and make eye contact? Is she flirty? If you hand her your business card, does she tuck it into her purse or bra instead of putting it down on the table? These are obvious signs that she’s open to a date with you.
Once you start paying attention to an older woman who could be a potential date, you’ll start to see signs as to whether she may be open to a date with a younger man. There are benefits to dating cougars—you just have to learn how to spot a great one!